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Male (53) looking for Female Kitchener, Ontario, Canada

Hey there! Yes, I know you are going to jump to my photos first. It’s okay, I’ll wait…

(…dum dee dum dee dum…do di do di do…)

...You’re back? Great, I didn’t frighten you off then. If my resemblance to Brad Pitt wasn’t enough to make you jump into messaging me, I should probably tell you some more wonderful things about myself!

Let’s begin with a little trip down memory lane:

I’ve been following the path of a cartoonist and artist since I was a little kid, grade 2 to be exact. I even built my own drawing table out of two by fours and put it in the living room much to my mother’s chagrin, but to her credit she bit her tongue and let me set up shop. Don’t worry, if I make something for you I won’t use two by fours.

I’m multi-faceted. A geek who studied fine art in university. I am at home discussing the sensuality of a Tom Thompson painting or the subtle beauty of a Rothko. Art talks to my soul, from Picasso to Peanuts, if you let it they can mesmerize and awaken something deep inside you. I won’t drag you to a gallery, but I’d be happy if you came along and we could share that experience. I am also equally at home sharing my favourite Three Stooges’ moments. C’mon, you can admit to liking them, I won’t tell anyone ;)

I work with kids during the day. My children are now grown, and I couldn’t be prouder of them, so it’s very fulfilling teaching various classes to younger ones. Their enthusiasm and curiosity is inspiring. In my free time, I have several webcomics and I’m in the process of starting a publishing company. One that specializes in providing children’s picturebooks for families outside societies norms. I still like to create more traditional forms of art. I won’t ask you to pose nude for me but if you offer… then again, maybe I will ask, but not on the first date. I swear.

I live my life by a simple philosophy of respect and compassion. We are all one, interconnected and entwined. That has lead me to a path of veganism. I cannot be part of a system of suffering, exploitation, and death for a snack. I’ve decided to date only vegans. I know this will seriously limit my dating possibilities but I have to be true to my convictions.

This extends into my personal life as well. Showing respect to the people in my life can show up as chivalry and affection. I hope you like being romanced! Don’t be surprised if I start dancing with you in the grocery store if a great song comes on. Serving the people in my life is not a weakness it’s an honour. Although I will expect some token of appreciation in return. I’ll leave that up to you ;)

I’ll let you in on a secret: I’m not much into sports. I will watch the Leafs if they make the playoffs…so I never watch, heh, heh. I prefer to spend my Saturdays exploring out of the way local places, hidden gems, and surprising discoveries. From unique shops to a seldom visited waterfall to a music festival. All the better to explore while holding my girl’s hand. My Sundays tend to be quieter. Maybe curled up on the couch watching a movie, or reading, with a special someone cuddled up with me.

If that’s the type of weekend you enjoy, if you don’t mind a guy who takes you by the hand and leads you on an adventure, and if you can handle someone being openly affectionate, we should talk. Looking forward to your message.


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Vegetarian Preferences

Type of vegetarian:Vegan


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageCanadian
Height173 cm
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorAuburn / red
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairFull beard
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000

Leisure & Fun

Favorite TV showsDoctor Who, Community, Modern Family, The Mercer Report, Big Bang Theory, Simpsons, Family Guy, American Dad, Top Gear, Ghost Hunters and Ghost Adventures...
Favorite moviesFrom silent to summer blockbusters. From animated to art house. Some movies I can watch over and over are Lord Of The Rings, most of the Marx Brothers movies, Casablanca, any Cary Grant comedy, Emperor’s New Groove, Brave, Avengers...
Favorite artistsLet’s just say that if you put my iTunes on shuffle it could go from Rush to Hank Williams to Marilyn Manson to The Dubliners to Green Day to someone you've probably never heard of, to…you get the idea.
Favorite booksOn my bedside table I have Ecstasy is Necessary by Barbara Carrellas, Gaia and the New Politics of Love: Notes for a Poly Planet by Serena Anderlini-D'Onofrio. I just finished Dying to Be Me by Anita Moorjani and Wishes Fulfilled by Wayne Dyer.


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingDon't drink
Social behaviorObservant
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Quiet one
Sense of humorClever
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book, Playing video games, Going to a museum


Political viewsAnarchist
ReligionNot religious
Goal in lifeBy day I work a mild mannered job but at night I don tights and fight inj- I've revealed too much. Just ignore that last bit. In my spare time I'm a cartoonist/illustrator/writer. I have several webcomics (from family friendly to the erotic) but at the moment I'm quite driven with working on publishing children's books for families outside society's norms.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerYou are strong, whole, and dynamic. You don't need a man in your life but you choose to have one. You're looking for a partner, a friend, and a cohort. You see relationships as being about being 100% honesty, loving in the moment, falling in love with each other over and over, and not being together out of obligation or societal norms of ownership.

And you bust a gut watching The Marx Brothers. (Okay, it doesn't HAVE to be them, but you laugh easily and freely.)