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values authenticity morals ethics, integrity

Life is about an active mind and body

Spirituality, from wherever it originates, is essential

You must absolutely love animals... all of them! For example, last night (sept 3rd) I chased the neighbors jerk of a cat across half the neighborhood to rescue an injured bird from its clutches. Today said bird is at wild life rescue and doing well. .

The way you treat others animals included and our world is who you are. There is no denying that. If you treat that which is in your life with negativity it is likely that is what you embody.

Family is unquestionably important. Be they a family of friends or parents, aunts, uncles and siblings... without them life would be a hideous incarnation.

Purpose, be it raising a child a job or things you do in your free time... If you don't know the feeling of true purpose life is at best lost.

As for life involving relationships I would definitely say I have a great deal more appreciation for those who approach intimacy as I do. What I mean is those who don't just jump from relationship to relationship indiscriminately.

I don't expect to be with someone who is "perfect" that simply does not exists. We are all flawed.

What I do expect however is to be with someone who is flawed in the similar ways as I am. Then you have commonality and reason to better one another.

Personally speaking I've been single for over two and a half years... not because I'm some looser or because opportunities haven't presented themselves to be involved with others romantically, but because I know what I am interested in and what I am not. I don't believe settling is an option for you or for me and I do not believe compromise is even slightly acceptable in the beginning of a relationship. If you have to settle you've just lowered your standards of what is a good relationship and in so doing only the relationship will suffer. Friends are a different story...the same standards do not apply.

Compromise is something that comes when you have been with someone for long enough that you have to find a deliberate common ground for the greater good of the relationship. Just an example, if kids are involved,then you have deliberate common ground to compromise.

Life in general is at its best without compromise and I have no intention of doing so. You should feel the very same.

.P.S

A love of the environment is also a must. I am a vegan because I care about the welfare of animals, all animals, not just the cute fuzzy ones.. It is completely arrogant and positively ignorant of us to believe and assume we are more important or deserving of a fare shot at life than any other creature. I place the exact same value on all living creatures. I am just as likely to rescue a bug as i am a dog or a human.

However, I am also a vegan because I care about the environment. The consumption of animal products is the leading factor in the destruction of our entire planet. This is an absolute fact! It is also the reason our species may actually face extinction. That is also an absolute fact

Andrew

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